Orders of Love System Legacy

I wrote Orders of Love System Legacy during a turning point in my life. After facing heartbreak and setbacks in my military career, I needed a way to understand the structure of relationships—how they rise, how they fall, and what holds them together. This book brings together personal stories, poetry, and real reflections that helped me define what I call the order of love system of self. It’s not a textbook or a step-by-step manual—it’s a lived experience, put into words, meant to help others think through their own patterns and ways of connecting. 

If you’ve ever felt the weight of emotional disconnection or needed a better framework for handling relationship struggles, this is something you can sit with. Whether you choose the paperback to mark up and keep by your side or the eBook to read on the go, the message stays the same. I believe preparing ourselves before a crisis happens can make it easier to get through. Knowing how we’re built to love—and how others are too—can shift the way we relate, grow, and stay steady in the face of life’s changes.